Last Tuesday I got my wisdom teeth out. Luckily, I only had the two bottom ones. Before they came in I went to three different dentists that all said they would come in fine and that I could just leave them in. They finally started to break through when I was first pregnant with Brynlee. And then they just seemed to stop coming up. They were still halfway covered with the gum. They would start to hurt every few months or so and I thought it was just because they were coming up some more. Really they were done coming up and they just kept getting infected. A trip to the dentist confirmed this. Why didn't those other dentists tell me this was possible back when I had insurance? The dentist told me the only way to stop the pain was to pull out the teeth. Joel and I kept thinking Joel would get a job with good insurance and then it would be cheaper. A few weeks ago I decided I was done with the pain and ready to get these things out.
I finally set up an appointment to get my wisdom teeth out. The dentist I went to was really good at explaining everything to me and she gave me all of my possible options. I could have just had the gum cut off from the top of the teeth but she said the wisdom teeth are usually the first ones to get cavities and have problems because they are back so far in the mouth. They are also harder to get out the longer you wait so it is better to do it when you are young. That convinced me to just get the things out. Joel took Tuesday off of work and drove me to the dentist. He didn't want me to drive home by myself afterwards, even though they only numbed my mouth so I could have drove just fine. He watched the kids and I called him to get me when everything was over. They numbed my mouth really good until the whole bottom of my mouth felt super swollen and then they gave me some headphones with some music to listen to. The music helped a lot. It was kind of a surreal experience. They started on my left side and ended up having to cut some of the bone to get the tooth out. I could smell the smoke from the tool they used. As soon as they got that tooth out they stitched me up. The next tooth had a really curved root but the gum wasn't as tight around it so the tooth came out fairly easily without much cutting. It was done much faster. I was stitched up and ready to leave in exactly an hour. Everything went really well. They were worried about how close my roots were to the gums but it really wasn't a problem. They gave me a prescription to pick up and we got that right away and then we went home.


My mouth was really numb at that point. Joel decided to pick up some groceries. He left Annalyn home napping and took Brynlee with him. It would have been a great plan if he didn't have to spent two hours fixing his truck. Not to mention Annalyn only took a 30 minute nap. And she was really whiney and fussy when she woke up. She wanted me to hold her but she would not hold still. She kept hitting my sore mouth. At first I still couldn't feel anything but eventually I started to feel the pain. And boy did it hurt. Joel brought me home a smoothie but I really wasn't in a mood to eat. The medicine I took made me really drowsy. Joel took the kids outside so I could rest. He was truly a lifesaver. I am so glad he was able and willing to take care of them for me.
The next day Joel took both of the kids to the store with him and then he went to help Grandma with her garden. This was the first time Joel has ever taken both of the girls anywhere by himself. Unless you count the trip to pick me up from the dentist. It was the first time I have been home by myself in years and it was so nice. I love my kids so much but it was so nice to have the freedom to do whatever I wanted. I actually felt pretty good that morning and I got several of the projects done that I wanted to do. But then I started to feel the pain and sickness. I am glad I didn't have to take care of kids at that point. I just laid down and rested. I even got to watch a show. Joel was gone for most of the day. When he came back I told him how nice it was to have this break and he told me he thought doing it once every three years was plenty. In Brynlee's words she was"naughty and not listening to daddy." I guess there were a few meltdowns in the store. Joel had Grandma watch the girls the whole time he fixed her garden so he can't really complain too much. He didn't even have to make dinner because my sister in law brought over a really nice meal and Joel's mom made some dessert. I am really grateful for so many people who were so willing to help up out.


On Thursday Joel had to go back to work. My mouth was still super sore and I had to take lots of medicine to get me thought the day, but I survived. I pretty much lived on scrambled eggs, smoothies, and noodles the first few days. Joel helped me get the kids in bed and then he went to help my dad refinish the hardwood floors in their old house. I went to bed right away and then he didn't come home until late. He slept in late the next day and only worked for a few hours. He played with the kids and got ready for his camping trip that he had to go on. He made us dinner and took good care of us before he left. After he left I got the kids to bed and enjoyed some more time alone. Joel came home from camping around three the next day. Brynlee and Annalyn were into all kinds of mischief until then so I was looking forward to having him come home. He really is a great dad.
Sunday was Mother's Day. Last year for Mother's Day Joel told me he was going to make me breakfast in bed. We always made my mom breakfast in bed so I was really looking forward to it. Brynlee woke up really early that morning and I made Joel get up with her. (I had just gone back to bed after feeding Annalyn.) I woke up a few hours later to the sound of Brynlee banging on my door. She had spent the last few hours running around the house making lots of messes while Joel slept in her bed. Her bedroom door was also shut so she couldn't get in there. We had to go to church so there was no time for Joel to make me breakfast in bed. All year I tried to get Joel to bring me breakfast in bed to make up for it not doing it but he refused. He kept telling me I would have to wait until next year.
Now that Mother's Day was finally here, I really wanted breakfast in bed. I was determined to have my mouth feeling completely better by then but it was still really sore. I still had a bruise on my face that morning. Joel is always exhausted after a campout so I was worried about him waking up in time. Luckily we don't have church until 1pm so I figured he would have enough time to make me breakfast. Brynlee woke him up at 6am and Joel got up right away, although it was somewhat reluctantly, and he made me some breakfast and brought me some nice presents. The food was soft so I could eat it and I was really grateful that he did it. Getting up early on a Sunday is not easy for Joel. Of course, once I was awake, Joel fell asleep in the middle of the living room with the fan on and he slept until he had to get up for church. It wasn't exactly the nice relaxing morning I was looking forward to but Joel did take care of me and look after me all week so I couldn't really complain. I do love being a mom and being with my girls. After church we went to my grandma's house for dinner. Joel did a lot to help out my mom and my grandma that day.
Today my mouth feels much better. I can eat almost everything I want. I am glad I got my wisdom teeth out and it wasn't really as bad as I thought it would be. Especially since Joel did so much to help me out. I love my family and I am grateful for all of their support through this ordeal. I really appreciate how hard Joel works so that I can stay home and enjoy being a mom to my little girls. I am glad I get to stay home and watch them grow up.